Christian Dating : How to Navigate Proposals as a Young Lady (Final Part)





Resting on His sweet oasis.

 “You are lucky, Jessica. Very lucky”, Hadassah sipped her lemon juice slowly. They were at the latter’s house planning on honoring a wedding invitation from one of their school friend. An old secondary school friend of theirs. 

“How do you mean?” Jessica balled. 

“I mean, you healed so fast from the relationship that one would think nothing like that ever happened to you,” Hadassah returned pitifully. 

Jessica smiled. 

Hadassah would forever think that Dans Akins was the first to walk out on the relationship, thereby the pity. 

Life after the breakup with Dans Akins has been weight -free. The mental burden of who Dans Akins really is, what they could and should introduce into their dwindling relationship, and what she prays that the future would turn to be were no longer a part of her. 

“I found out that being single and waiting for God’s best is the best phase I ever would enjoy.”

 “hmmmmmm….how do you manage to get along?” 

“I manage so well, because I obeyed the voice of God. 

The bible says, Obedience brings Blessing. The blessings that I now enjoy in the form of peace” 

In His will, you will never be stressed, because it is divine. God demands a one step-at a-time relationship with us. He will never listen to the one who would prefer to skip the ‘Ordinary’ to match the ‘Extra ordinary’, because He is true to his name - A Just Judge . 

Dearest sister, you're too precious to 'just' fall into the hands of any man! God loves you and He is far interested in your love-life than you could ever think. Only put Him first and earnestly seek for His confirmations before saying, "I DO." Because when the Spirit of God is speaking, When the spirit of God is leading you to the right one, you will JUST know. 





Because, the real man will speak to your spirit and not your flesh. Oh yeah! 

God is still in the business of leading you to the BONE OF YOUR BONE AND FLESH OF YOUR FLESH.

Just Wholly Trust Him the way a child would helplessly trust the parent, then, watch God lovingly dote on you!







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