Christian Dating Advice : How to navigate proposals as a Young Lady

 


Hey sis,

In Has he proposed? Can love itself suffice?

Concerning marital, the desires to opt for the prettier dainties is very strong. See, without putting God first, making a life time mistake would be inevitable. 

But, when we understand that love CANNOT conquer all, we will not conform to the desires of the flesh, we will allow the spirit rule. We will not over work ourselves to please others, since things will be allowed to take its natural course and the true nature of things would be revealed. And as the process goes, we will not fret in the face of mountain-kind of challenges, because we would boldly say that God is solely behind us. 

Our lives are likened to a journey on earth. On the bus-stop of marital goals, we cannot afford to lose our match- our kind- our blood with the same striking DNA( the Blood of Jesus Christ that runs through the veins of those that are called His own), since the journey is capable of leading one to his/her eventual destiny (Heaven or Hell)..

This story was originally published as an e-book but I will be posting it in series so as to guide as many as possible against the popular perspective of testing the waters before saying ‘I do’ . Sometimes, this popular pattern does not go in the favoritism of a good number of ladies.

Dans Akins and Jessica Thompson’s story still exemplifies the inadequacies in the journey to marriage that Love could not very much suffice for. 

When and where they found love would not matter, time and efforts used in nurturing the love found , would not do, because many things would seem to be wrong when the God-factor is absent!


Dear sis, kindly take a sip from the coffee below as we begin to unearth all the gems in this story via series. Remember, I love you and I value your premarital progress!




Comments

Anonymous said…
I think the expression, "love conquers all" should be re-examined. It doesn't conquer all.
September 23, 2024 at 1:15 AM
Ometereblessing said…
Honestly, I agree, because the belief that 'love conquers all' cannot help when we are faced with great decisions to make in life.
September 23, 2024 at 1:59 AM
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